sighx... cherishing the present vs working for the future.. which is better..? ppl live for the future.. wateva they do, they'll always be thinking of wat to do next.. hence, in the process of chasing tmr, they neglect today.. but on the other hand, if one has no targets in life, den wat is one living for..? if tmr's not plan out well, den today will be in chaos.. on the other hand, if we dun get to enjoy today, den wat's the use of life, coz the past's gone, n who noes when tmr will end..which is the life u r living in..?
hahaz.. wat is true happiness aniwae.. we all noe tt happiness doesn't last.. the feeling goes as fast as it comes.. compared to fear, anxiety, anger n sadness, these do not subside easily.. we live in a life of continuous sadness, onli wif brief moments of happiness to keep us alive.. how mani of u rmb a recent occasion when u r rilly happi..? how mani of u can re-live the feeling now when u think of it..? now try n recall a recent occasion where u r sad.. how mani of u can re-live the feeling of sadness..? wat about anger..? anxiety..? fear..? which is the strongest..? sho y's life made out tis way, tt we experience the negatives stronger than we experience the positive.. after falling once, we rmb the tt bitter taste 4 life.. yeahz.. if we recall the funni incidents we'll luff, but those r also brief moments of happiness, not eva-lasting happiness.. hahaz.. sho ppl sae 4get the sadness n move on wif life, den u can find happiness.. true, but wif happiness comes sadness too.. tt's nature's balance.. wat goes up muzz come down.. if happiness is our peak of life, den once we return to ground level, happiness is gone too.. but if we become sad, we dun return to normal as fast.. is tis nature's rule too..? gravity? wat comes down stays down.. how mani of us can get over wif sadness in life n move on totally.. 10yrs, 20yrs down the road, we still rmb the pain.. the more we hold on to happiness in life, the greater the pain we'll feel when we r sad.. it's a comparitive.. hahaz..
budden again.. tking a step back.. tt's wat's life's about isn't it.. we haf emotions, in the end, we r all guided by it.. how mani of us can truly sae 'i'm feeling sad now.. i shuld show a response to it.. i muzz stop myself frm being sad..' continue to remain at a balanced level, n not be guided by emotions.. isn't it..? the more sadness we feel, the more pain we feel.. sho if we stop feeling sadness, den we wun feel pain too isn't it..? if we dun feel happiness onli at special occasions, den we wun feel tt everiday life is boring isn't it.. if we dun let emotions play us, den life's peaceful already.. budden again, if variety is the spice of life, den emotions r the spicest of all varieties.. can u bear or choose to gif it up to live a life of tranquility..?
rYu89 . 10/31/2005 10:14:00 PM